Growing up in Hong Kong, Chinese New Year means 2 weeks without school, lots of food, lots of visiting relatives, and new clothes. It was my favorite holiday growing up, and it is still a very big holiday in my heart. I try to pass on the tradition, and how fun Chinese New Year could be with the boys. To make a point, when I was still working my 9-5 job (more like 7-5), I would always take a vacation day for Chinese New Year. Hey, it is important, and I do feel that I need to set that example for the boys.
Anyway, I have such fond memories of the New Year. My mom would start planning the meal a few weeks in advance. I guess not that much different than planning Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner. Our home would be cleaned from top to bottom. In our tradition, the big cleaning should be done on the 28th of December (lunar calendar). I always got so motivated that I definitely did my big share of cleaning. It is believed that you should clean the house to sweep away all the bad luck before the New Year begins, so that it doesn’t carry on till the following year.
Then we would decorate our house by hanging red papers with good luck writings on them. Remember the story of Nien from previous posting, this mythical monster was afraid of anything red.
We will then eat with our whole family on New Year’s eve. I have 4 sisters, and 1 brother, so we always had to find space for this big dinner in our little Hong Kong apartment. This dinner is called “reunion dinner”, or 团 圆 饭, tuan yuan fan. It is a tradition that everyone should try VERY hard to make it to dinner. Usually there are 8 or 9 dishes, which is another topic for another day, and usually consist of chicken, pork, fish, black moss, and some other shell fish. We will then have to clean up and sweep again before midnight, otherwise my mom restricted anyone to sweep our house until the 3rd day of New Year.
Then on New Year’s day, our parents would give out red envelopes to us, and we will say our Happy New Year to them. It is a tradition that only married couples give away red envelope to children. I remember opening the red envelopes at the end of day to count the money I “made” everyday, and would do a total tally to see if I did well that year.
After New Year’s day, then we would travel to go see our relatives, or they would come over to our house to see us. I have a very big family. My dad is one of seven kids, and my mom is one of six, so we had lots of visiting to do. We would bring candy or chocolate. The tradition is that you need to bring something sweet, to wash away any bitterness from last year.
Oh boy, so busy and so much fun, and therefore Chinese people celebrate New Year for 15 days.